0224 – When Life Gives You Lemons, Train!
Today I was pretty motivated to bring a podcast that was a little bit more focused on the practical side.  I would hate to have folks lose interest because I spend too much time talking about the philosophical points.  The fact is though, like I mentioned yesterday, the software is where it is at.  Not to mention that as I was working on today’s more practical show, life provided me with an opportunity to train.  I had to put into use some of the skills I talk about all the time.  Here is the scoop.  I’m at my computer pounding away at the keyboard trying to layout an organized presentation for you folks and bantering back and forth with Pincus about accuracy and precision on Facebook when i hear some frustrated grunting in the background.  I turned around to see this:
A 3.5 year old head stuck in between the stretchers on a dining room chair. Â I had a little chuckle to myself, but it wasn’t long before I realized it was “Game on!” Â No ones life was in danger, but this was a perfect opportunity to train!
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Challenges = Opportunities
Every day we face “problems.” Â I have never been a fan of the word problem because it has such a negative connotation. Â I like to think of those problems as “challenges.” Â They are positive. Â A chance to overcome adversity and a chance to learn. Â As soon as we realize that we can learn from our challenges, we turn them into opportunities. Â Life is full of opportunities it is simply up to us to make sure capitalize on them.
An Opportunity to Organize
When we face a challenge we have to have the ability to quickly determine our purpose(s) and how we are going to achieve the purpose(s).  Our purpose is commonly referred to as a goal and the method to achieving a goal is a tactic.  The faster we are able to organize our thinking in relationship to what we want to accomplish and how we want to accomplish it the more quickly we will be able to engage in the actions that are going to make a difference.  Familiarity helps us to increase our speed.  It would be no surprise to any one if I were to explain that we often have the ability to do things more quickly when we have done them before.  This is a pretty simple concept, it is easier to recall and do than to do without having that prior experience to recall.
When you face a challenge, use the opportunity to organize your response into Goals and Tactics.  The more we practice this line of thinking in everyday situations the easier it will become to apply in stressful situations.  Our hope is to bring the skill to the level of (as Peter put it on FB) unconscious competence.  Where we don’t think about and or realize the manner in which we are responding to the stimulus.  Lets look at some challenges, and corresponding goals and tactics.
Situation                    Goals                                                Tactics
Whats for Dinner                     Use ingredients on hand to eat                                        Search www.allrecipie.com by ingredient
Flat Tire                              Get back on raod safely and quickly                                   Change the tire, call service truck, drive to a safe location.
Laceration                            Stop the bleeding                                                     Direct pressure, elevation, clotting agent, tourniquet
Lethal violent encounter              Prevent/Avoid, Dominate                                            Awareness, use locks, light, numbers, strategic positioning, create time and distance with unarmed skills to deploy a lethal tool
Mass casualty situation               prevent further injury, extricate and treat injured, etc.              Secure the scene, evaluate safety, SAR, triage and provide aid.
We can use these organizational skills in virtually any situation where we have challenges that need to be addressed.  You probably use these organizational skills every day and don’t even notice it.  Pay attention to it.  Home those skills and put them to use as an immediate response to the stimulus of the challenge and you will develop that unconscious competence that you will need when you need to take action for real.
An Opportunity for Stress
One of the issues that makes serious situation serious is the consequences. Â When the stakes are high stress becomes a factor. Â Maybe it would be better to say that stress becomes THE factor. Â Stress changes everything.
- The balance of chemicals in our bloodstream. Â Adrenaline dump, rush, combat cocktail call it what you want. Â When we face stress, it happens and it modifies how we operate.
- Increase in heart rate
- Shift in blood flow in the body
- Fine and complex motor skills compromised
- Gross motor skills enhanced
- Increased visual acuity
- This list goes on
An Opportunity to Exercise Your Software
Stressors
- My daughters stress level
- Possibility of injury from predicament
- Possibility of injury from extraction
- Possibility of property damage from extraction
My Plan:
Goals:
- Prevent Injury
- Keep Calm
- Extract without further injury
Tactics
- Make M comfortable in current position, employ tactical breathing (for her)
- Communicate plan
- Solve the puzzle, or spread the stretchers, or hammer out legs, or press out legs, or cut stretchers.
thanks for the sponsor of the day! i appreciate the kind words! great story about your daughter!! lol! thanks for the laugh!